Bear with me, okay. I am in the mood to write. It has been ages since I poured myself out here. And I am sure u ols miss me, kan? ;)
I came across this someone's blog recently. She is in her second marriage. Prior to that, her first marriage lasted for 15 years. To me, 15 years is a damn bloody long time, don't you think? And, to be married to someone for those long years, I am sure it accounts for something. I am sure there was love. I am sure there were good times. I am damn sure of that even though I was not in the marriage. Let's face it.. otherwise, the marriage would have ended like.. only in 12 days, right? Tu baru lah leh kata takde cinta ke, tertipu ke, tak bahagia ke.. But after 15 years?
Where am I going with this ek? Actually, in the blog, she sort of saying that she had wasted 15 years of her life. In a way, the way I interpreted it, she regretted being married to the ex. Fair enough if she wants to hate him for whatever that happened that led to the divorce. But I feel like it's unfair to say that she has wasted her life. Come on lah.. takkan baru tersedar after 15 years? Unless kena ubat guna-gunalah.. Yelah, it's her life. She can feel whatever she want to feel. Who am I to say anything to begin with.
Erk.. again.. where am I going with this ek? Just to remind myself. Life has its ups and downs. When it is up, treasure it. When it is down, face it but don't dismiss the good things. It's just too easy to look at the bad side of things and forget on the good things.
Tu je lah.
Angah
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